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I created an account in this app because of you. I'm 21, and I feel like I'm entering that phase of being the loneliest and happiest I've ever been at the same time, I'm near graduation and beginning to think about how on earth am I gonna move out from my parents' house, everything feels so close and so far at the same time. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for appearing in my life at this time so I can read what you write, it truly gets to my heart and soul 🤍

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first of all, this is so so sweet. thank you so much.

the weird dichotomy of loneliness and happiness isn't going to change, but i think you get better at balancing it as you get older! thank you so much for reading <3

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This is honestly a curation of super insightful perspectives. You are so lucky to have so many thoughtful people around you! 💛

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i am! i am so blessed and thankful to have such wonderful friends and parents <3

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This postcard is beautiful and so refreshing to know that everyone feels the same way in their twenties. Also, I think you should go for it as an author. Your writing is so beautiful and personal and intimate. I’m so happy I subscribed.

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thank you so so much!

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You are incredibly wise for a 24-year old, Elle! I am more than a decade older and I took away a lot from this post 💯

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thank you so much!!!!

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I relate to your dad saying that he is grateful because some of the things he wanted to work out didn't, and that he got something better instead. That's so true, sometimes the things that we were so desperate for, now, when we look back at it, it wasn't even worth it, and the better thing that we get instead is peace.

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yep! he always tells me that any rejection actually led to something astronomically better

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i love you so much and i’m so proud of you and soooo lucky to have you in my life 🤍

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thank you for writing the most beautiful paragraphs ever ily

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Thai article is so sweet, here’s to continue “growing up and getting old” together ❤️❤️‍🩹

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<3

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i loooved this postcard (my first from you, actually) and i love how long it is, with all the plurality of people and experiences you brought in it ! i feel like the common point of it all was love, and i hope ill remember a bit of those pieces of wisdom :)

ive just turned 19 and i am already feeling so lost, so reading this was very comforting. thank you 🫶🏻

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i thought the perspectives and experiences were so important for this specific post, so i didn't cut anything out—i am so glad i didn't!

don't feel lost! your best days are ahead of you <3

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Welcome to the 24 club Elle! What a beautiful piece you’ve written. 23 was the year I felt I was “getting older” rather than “growing up” and I’m still unpacking that reality 18 months on. Similarly to you, I’m appreciating those little things so much more - and I’m making sure to ace my nighttime routine.

I hope you’ve had a lovely birthday, even if they are a little bittersweet!

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thank you so much soph!! this means so much to me <3

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love this, elle <3

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thank you!

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I NEEDED THIS. I hope everyone, regardless of their age, will take the time to read this, especially those who are entering or are in their 20s. this is the most eye-opening, refreshing, heartfelt, and profound piece I’ve ever come across. I’m certain I’ll revisit and reread this whenever I need a little push. bless all your beautiful souls. 🤍

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first your tweet and now this!!!! you are so wonderful thank you!!

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you inspire me so much! and push me to embrace the passion I have for literature. you are heaven sent!! <33

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I really loved this:

"My faults. The bad habits that I hope to rid myself of.

My passions. The seeds I’d like to water in the years to come.

My priorities. The people & experiences that I think of most often."

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me too!

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This is one of the first articles I’ve read here (I actually downloaded the app because of your posts “can you see right through me?” And “I am a collection of dismantled almosts”). I might come back to read it every now and then, because this right here is a beautiful and well constructed guide to life, and the insights of each of your friends couldn’t be more helpful. Thanks Elle, please keep bringing more masterpieces like these.

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How timely— I needed to read every word. Currently twenty-six (twenty-three if you don’t count COVID years) and felt like I am really getting to know who I truly am and what I really want. Thank you so much for sharing ✨

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Your post crossed my path today like a sign... It's so enlighten! I'm turning 40 within a month and I still don't know how life works. I think we just keep going and learning along the way

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I'm 30 and I feel like I'm only now starting to become aware of many of the things you've perfectly described here. One of the best feelings in the world is finding someone has written exactly how you feel in a way in which not even yourself could put it in words.

Hope that make sense :)

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